My primary interests, in session
- Erotically charged mental manipulation
- Artful verbal humiliation that starts as tease before you realise you are in a world of sweet degradation
- Understanding, pushing yet respecting your limits (this is very important to me)
- You doing as I say, jump higher like this, suck harder like this – protocol followed according to my desires
- Pushing delicately and not so delicately on all your kink buttons, I will use them to use you
- Seeing you erotically overwhelmed and in absolute bliss
- Controlling you so tightly to the edge of your orgasm
- Dictating if and how you may finally release, release and release…
- Using my sub girl on you accordingly
My primary interests, always
- Genuine submission
- Intelligent obedience
- Courteous, competent, attentive, efficient service slavery (pre-empting my needs will get you far, could be as simple as making sure I never carry a bag)
My secondary interests, in session
- Indulging my sadistic needs up to our safeword. Most of the time I am reading you throughly but sometimes I like that you are just a surface for my cane (I get the urge once every few months but it is strong)
My secondary interests, always
- Being spoiled. I adore it when you get to know my preferences and look after them for me. This could be booking hotels and restaurants according to my tastes unprompted.
- It could also be gifts. I am specific with my gifts, I know what I want and I will tell you. Safe words are allowed. I often consider this play meets adoration and generosity.
My other kink competencies
- You name it and I’ve likely been trained in it. I began as a dungeon apprentice and practiced under many Mistresses before establishing myself as a Dominatrix. You could call it a classical training.
- Physically I lean towards light to medium level play (up to marks for a week, restriction with some room for movement) but I am competent up until the lower range of hard play
- Mentally and emotionally, I am at my best with advanced players; or I will lead beginners into genuine power exchange rapidly
Interests in progress but not a main focus
Off the cards
- Sex (my sub girl is available for this)
- Intimate worship aside from ass worship (I find the combination of intimacy and degradation of ass worship sublime)
- Instructions or scripts, I do not respond well to these. Pose every desire as a request and be ready to leave yourself to my hands.
- Permanent branding or modifications, I will not do these myself but love facilitating so
- Extensive blood play, nothing against it I only feel my experience is lacking
- Anything illegal
To start, leading up to our first session
- At this point you will be welcomed to share your general interests and experience with me. I may even ask to hear about a short fantasy or two. But my initial focus is understanding what it’s like to toy with who you are.
- You may think of it as a very titillating first date.
- Simply turn up and do as I say. I will instigate and appreciate your surrender…
If we meet again
- I will be happy to dig deeper and may get you to fill out a thorough kink worksheet which I will incorporate into our interactions.
If I decide we will get along outside session walls
- I would like to keep you on hand for errands and out of session activities, e.g. rope bottom in kinbaku workshops, my dinner companion, go fetch me something etc.
- I may also send you to see my large network of carefully selected Mistresses. They are generally my friends but as I hold myself to a high standard they are also of this standard or greater. I do this to cover areas I do not excel in, for when I am unavailable or simply for my amusement.
A note on limits and boundaries
- Hard limits are always respected
- In initial sessions we will be testing the waters and so conversations around limits will be brief.
- However as we progress – both your kink worksheets and our interaction will inform me further.
- This is very important to me. I practice BDSM with a strong emphasis on ethical exchange that is risk aware, consensual and caring. We will be indulging in activities that society defines as hurtful but in actuality the negotiation inherent to a BDSM exchange makes it one of the most compassionate environments possible.
- As a Dominant I am the caretaker of our emotions and consequences. I take this responsibility to heart.